Self-talk is a thing. For better or worse. Your inner dialogue matters.
I was reminded of this when I was on the tennis court for the first time after 13+ year hiatus of match play. Prior to this break, tennis WAS LIFE. In the past on the court, I beat myself up with words when I missed a point or was down.
Coming back last week, I was determined not to fall into those negative mental traps, but just like years before, with the swing of my racquet, I was bullied by my thoughts. I was both physically and mentally out of shape!
But something happened. I needed the focus to move forward. Out of breath and tired, I had to reframe my self-talk for SURVIVAL - I had to talk myself into playing the very next point!
Job seeker, where do you need to talk yourself into taking the next step? Language matters so much that researchers in a 2014 study found talking to yourself in third-person is more effective than referring to yourself as 'me' or "I".
When you need endurance, train yourself with positive thoughts.
Instead of: I can't do this another day.
Say: You can take the very next step, Meg. One foot in front of the other.
Just a Monday morning PSA: Be kind to yourself.
Are you aware of how you talk to yourself? How has it helped or hurt you in your career success?